PIFH #3: People who say “single mothers shouldn’t be discriminated against in any way.”

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Why the fuck not? They discriminated against making good decisions with their pussies and forced us all to deal with it.

I see no problem with this. Every day you have women who sit around discriminating against men for their height (which they can’t control), looks (which they can only partially control) and their money (which is greatly impacted by the economy), and no one bats a fucking eyelash to this shit. I’ve seen a woman turn her nose up at a man for wearing the wrong kind of shoes, not having enough “swagger” (whatever the fuck that is) or buying the wrong kind of alcohol at the club. Women disqualify men for obsolete shit like this every. single. day.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve stumbled over titles of articles that said something like “10 Reasons Why You Should Date a Single Mother” or “Why Single Mothers are Still Women” or “Real Men Don’t Discriminate Against Women with Children” and other ridiculous shit like that.

What could be a reason to date a woman with kids who aren’t yours?

1. She is known for making life-changing “mistakes” easily. But she’s learned from it. It only took her 3 times.

Oh, and I don’t think you can categorize bringing another living, breathing human being into this world so recklessly as a “mistake” or a “phase”. Accidentally backing into a car in a parking lot is a mistake. Drinking 5 days a week in college is a fucking phase, not popping out a bastard child.

Not getting on welfare because you can’t support that child.

Not shaming a child-free man into taking care of an off-spring that isn’t his.

The next time I hear anyone, in my fucking presence say the line: “Real men/women do…”, I’m going to smack them in the fucking mouth. When is the last time someone said this and it was attached to something positive?

“Real men don’t judge a woman with a promiscuous past.”

Give it up ladies they will always judge you for this.

“Real women don’t date guys who treat them like shit.”

Stop sipping that kool-aid fool because the majority of women like this at some point in their lives.

I’d likely fall off my chair if I heard someone say “Real men/women live their lives with some sort of principles and standards”…and actually believed it.

But we are all being systematically brow beaten into accepting nothing better than garbage from other people around us. I’d like to know where all the single dads are who probably don’t get dates because most women probably don’t want to be with a man with children, either. I want to hear from all of the women, who lost their partners to death, and are grouped in as just another “single mom” that made herself a cum dumpster for some loser she used to know.

Single motherhood has become something worthy of praise. These women are hailed as heroes.

Allowing a man, that has invested nothing but the 5 minutes of attention at a bar one night, to impregnate you, is heroic.

Choosing to reproduce children with men you know won’t take care of them has become an act of courage.

Going to work everyday to earn money to support your bastard children, feeding, clothing and doing other duties a parent is supposed to do  makes you worthy of a goddamn purple heart.

That’s how far our society has fallen.

Up until a few decades ago, you’d be a fool to marry anyone who had children outside of marriage. You’d be a fool spend your life and resources taking care of children who weren’t yours. People used to take pride in passing down their genes to their off-spring. Having a legacy to live on in your place used to mean something.

Any attempt to take this right away from other people or discourage them from exercising it deserves a round-house kick to the throat. Forcing other people to fund your bad decisions and take care kids that wouldn’t exist had we enforced personal responsibility is a joke.

This is why I think people who enable single motherhood or engage in single motherhood can fuck off. Preferably with a condom or some other type of contraceptive.

They can fuck off back to the broken homes they created that produce the broken children. They can fuck off back to watching their tax money being used by the overweight women with multiple kids at their local discount food mart. They can can fuck off to the moment where they had to shame another person into finding what they have to offer attractive because otherwise they’d go ignored. May they crawl back into whatever accountability-free hole they fell out of.

I refuse to sit back and say nothing. I refuse to let you make excuse after excuse for your shitty choices while acting like everyone else has to put up with it. People like you do nothing for the world except for hurt it. From this point on I vow to always make sure you know it. I will no longer sit in the presence of a woman who chose to have kids by some loser and pat her ego as she laments how “hard” it is to be a single parent. I will no longer sit by and watch women seek out sympathy for a situation they created. You get not sympathy from me. You made your bed, so lie in it.

–Quinny

 

 

 

 

 

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